Wednesday 25 February 2009

Visit to the Skolen ved Stadion

Today we – Lilla and me – visited a school – it called Skolen ved Stadion – where handicapped children study. I’m using this expression – handicapped – generally: it means children with learning difficulties, early stage demage, alcohol syndrome (teratogen), down syndrome, autism, disability, hyperactivity (Attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder, ADHD) , super-hyperactivity. Some of the children have different problems in the same time, for instance : physiological disorder – eg. hyperactivity - and other disease – eg. down syndrome or disability and down syndrome...etc.
We went a class, where mostly hyperactiv children - boys - are, between the age of 10-11. The sooner they get to this special institute the easier to cope with them.
The daily rutine is quite important in this institute, mainly for autistic children, because they just can’t exist without it. But it is also important for all of the children here, because it gives a „frame”, a secure atmosphere for them.
The different groups, classes live separately in the institute, depending the age, the problem and the standard what they have. The avarage number of kids in each class is 6 and usually 2 teachers look after them. (It is little bit different in the groups where disapbled children are, because there more, teachers, helpers needed.)
In the morning we started in teacher’s room; there was a meeting with the headmaster and we also was introduced to the teachers, pedagogs and helpers. After that we went to the the „great hall”, where usually the morning singing take place. The headmaster projected the text of two songs to the wall, one of the teacher played at guitar and all of the children, teachers, pedagogs, helpers were singing. One song was an old Danish song, one is the „alphabet” song and the last one was a „welcome” song for us, what the children knew by heart. We had to go to the „stage”, next to the headmaster and the children just were singig. It really impressed me, and it was touching.
Then every groups went their own classroom, and the work has started. In this building, where the hyperactiv children are, the doors of each classrooms have to leave opened, because it makes the children being in silent. This is the way they can show to respect the other groups. There are 8 children suffering in ADHD.
At the beginning one of the teacher – Debby – collected the mobile phones from those children, who couldn’t behave yourselves during the singing and she also had a word with them. It is a kind of punishment.
The work was started with a sort of „recitation” about the name of the months, order of the month (numbers), how the months belong to the seasons. It was hard for them to put all these things together. The children can decide to join to the class and work together or not so. There is an other place, which called: silent room. In this place every children have an own table, chair, notice board…etc. separeted by panels. There is not allowed to speak: if somebody has a question, he needs to stick a little green card to the side of the panel and from this sign the teacher knows somebody has a problem. Children can put their favorite posters, draws onto the notice board, but it is a privilege; if someone can’t behave all stuff from the board being removed. All of children have an individual „note” from the teacher on their boards, such as: „Be yourself. Please do not act.”, „Please do not speak so loud and fast.” It works like a „motto”; when they look up, they can see it all the time.
So this boy has to study here and when he feels better, he can join to the class again.
Each boy has a different rules, what they need to learn.
They also study 6 new Danish word each they, but they also need to repeat the words what they learnt before by word games.
After this lesson they had gymnastics with the other teacher – Lars - , but with Debby assistance. They started with warm-up exercises; one of the guys showed the exercises to the others and after the it has changed. Then they get back to the „starting-point”, the middle of the grounds to discuss the rules of the special ballgame, what was the next task. The two groups had to play against each other and placing the ball with special sticks – soft material in the end – to the goals. During the game they can learn how can they interact and cope with each other. The game also helps to rid of the lots of energy and stress they have. They finished by relaxation; they had to lye ont he ground with closed eyes, without any movements. Lars said this is the hardest part of the activity for these children.
Afterwards they had their breakfast. In this time is not allowed to speak; a little red card usually placed onto the board; after a while the teacher is take it off and a little conversation is allowed from that time.Then they have a break outside, where you can play under the contol of teachers. Most of the groups have breaktime in different time to ignore conflicts between children.
After the breaktime they were watching a cartoon in the theatre room with an another group. The teacher, who after 3-4 minutes stopped the movie, tried to make them understand what’s happening. They watched the cartoon in small parts and they had to summarise what happened the last few minutes. This method also make them focus on one thing.
During this time Lars showed us the whole school, introduced us in the different classes, and explained the methods what they have as well. We visited the cookery school, handcraft activity, technique room, library and all of the other buildings. We have been in other classes, where hyperative children are and we also visited that buildings, where the autistic children are. First we went two extremely autistic children, who are separated from the others by a separated building and playground. Each child has an own teacher. One of the children had her lunch, when we arrived and the other one was watching a cartoon in a separate room. Both of the children became nervous within few seconds, because they noticed something is different, which means danger for them.
Then we visited the other authistic groups, where the silence is one of the most important thing and the other: to keep the daily routine. Small pictograms show what is the schedule for the day, and when one activity is over, one pictogram is taken off. They have group activites to make them „social”. Each child has his/her own colour. This colour – sticker - has to be on his/her chair, on that part of the round table, which belongs him/her, the side of the panel, where each child studies. Those children’s photoes, who are missing have to be placed onto the board, otherwise their classmates would completely forget about them. Most of the authistic children really smart, but they uncapable to use this knowledge.
We also have seen two physiotherapists, who worked with authistic children that time.
After that we visited the group of children with learning difficulties. When we arrived they were painting apples. Before they started to paint them, they tasted and smelt them.
Children with disabilities are the same building, so we went there next. They try to learn to cope with the everyday life, such as using toilet, washing hand, eating with fork and knife, clearing away (table), sweeping the floor…etc. Each child has his/her own tasks and it changes day by day.
After we visited all of the buildings, we get back „our” class. They had already finished watching the cartoon, and they had 15 minutes reading. Lars tries to challenge them all the time. They have an agreement: the members of the class – added together - has to read more pages, than Larsen. Otherwise – if Lars wins – the children have to learn a coreography and dance front of the whole school. They don’t want this latter, that’s way they read a lot, so it works!
Then they had lunch and long(er) break outside – again.
Finally they had a Danish lesson, where they had to read again. Everyone has to read two pages and the teacher write an estimation into the report book. They don’t have grades; this book helps to keep contact with families to report what’s going on in the school during the day, if they have problems with children, if the child forget to bring something…etc.
They don’t have any structure, curriculum; because it could be difficult for these children. But if something goes wrong – e.g. they don’t behave themselves - , they have to learn only math, Danish, and they can’t go for swimming, gymnesium, playing outside – so all of those „subjects”, which fun for them.
One of the theachers – from the other class – showed which games the children usually like to play – special puzzles, LEGO,…etc. He also took out a box full of with fossils from the cupboard to show what he collected with children from seaside. There are lots of them on the shore, but it is hard to find them, so this „exercise” also makes them concentrated.
I was very suprised, when the same teacher told us most of the children have a medication; mostly Ritalin, which is a prescribed phsychostimulant. It is a kind of downer, which makes the child calmer, but it is a drug int he same time! Although it is „only” supplemental treatment - methods are also important - , but I just simply can’t imagine how children manage to learn, when a strong drug effects their bodies. It is hard to separate the staidness of children is the result of the methods or the medication.
The school finishes at 2 o’clock. The smaller children stay in „afterschool”, the older one can go home on their own or special minibuses take them home.
All in all it really seemed to me all of teachers do they best, make a very much effort in their job and they love to work with these children.



Carnival in the College

On the 20th of February we had a fancy dress party in the College. We made lots of preparation before that. First we tried to rent some costumes from a shop, but there wasn't that much choice - most of them were already taken - , so we had to use our creativity...
One day I went to one of the charity shops and I saw a bag full of teabags. I thougt those are teabags, so I bought them. When I came home, I ralised there aren't any teabags in the bag at all, only just a collection of teabag papers. I bacame very angry, and I wanted to throw them away. I told the story first for Lilla and she suggested to keep them, because they are so colourful and special. After I told the story for the others; everybody laughed at me - of course - , because I bought half a kilo paper for 10 DKK...Then the idea came: the fancy dress party was coming and I haven't have anything to wear. I decided to be a tealady/teabag, but I had to buy a dress as well. So I went back an other charity shop and suprisingly I found a dress, which was suit for me and sewed some of the teabag papers on it. I also bought a teapot, so the fancy dress was completed and it was really cheap!But not only me, everybody was very creative: Cleopatra, bottle opener&bottle, impressionist artist, devil, clown, Zorro, gypsy girl,...etc.
It was really difficult to rode the bike in these costumes and in snowfall, but finally we arrived in safe to the College.
We met there some of our buddies and our teachers and we had fun together. Although the music wasn't best to dance - it was a sort of "concert music" - , we still could enjoy the night!

Sunday 15 February 2009

Visit to Aarhus

On 10th of February we went for a college excursion to Aarhus. We made a special plan before: we were divided to groups and every group had to introduce one of the following attractions:
  • the old town - Den Gamle By
  • the Cathedral
  • the latin quarter
  • the Art Museum - ARoS
The first attraction was the old town, which is not the in it's origin place: all of the old houses (from XVI.-XIX. centuries) - around 70 - were moved from all parts of Denmark to here. There are some exhibitions about the old life - e.g. school, pharmacy - , but the place also introduce the life of craftmen. I really liked the signs of craftmen, which are on almost every houses. My favourite part was the old watermill and stream with the geese...

We also saw the old windmill, but after that we rushed to the citycentre to see the Cathedral. It was a long way, but it was worthy, because this gothic cathedral has the longest nave in Denmark.

After this we little bit lost: we tried to find the latin quarter, but I'm still not quite sure we did or not...

Then we visited - in my opinion - the most interesting attraction in Aarhus: the ARoS, which one of the largest art museums in Northen Europe. It was our group job to make questions about this attractions. We diveded the group to 2 parts and the competition has started...
There are different kind of galleries: one shows the Golden Age - XVIII-XIX. century - of Danish art, but the most exciting one the galleries of modern art, contemporary art and digital art. The strangest statue I have ever seen is "The boy", which face and gaze shows different kinds of feelings if you look at it from different angles.
Unfortunatelly I haven't seen the Golden Age part of the exhibition, because we had to rush to the train.




There we corrected the questionnaire and the results of the two groups were drawn.
I really enjoyed my first excursion in Denmark. The only critic I have is the lack of time...

Wednesday 11 February 2009

Visit to the Favrfritten

On 5th of February Lilla and me visited to Favrfritten, which is an afterschool for children the age of 6-10. Even it's an afterschool and not a "normal" one, I could see the differences immediately:
  • the physical condition of the school: the place is really commodious and diveded to 4 bigger places by the arrangements of furniture -there are lots of little corners for different activities
  • there are 8-10 teachers/pedagogs for 83 children and this fact make the atmosphere more personal
  • teachers let the pupils to do all kind of activites:
  1. cooking/baking
  2. making handcrafts
  3. playing with: games, dolls, playstation (but limitation in the last one: only 30 minutes/day : )...etc.
  4. making drawings
  5. dance...etc.
  • pupils concentrated, focused on the activity and all of them participated in one activity - at least.
  • pupils followed the teacher's instruction, I haven't seen any conflicts between them
  • freedom of pupils: they could decide in choosing an activity and they also could go outside without any supervision
  • emphasising the importance of teaching/learning cooking
  • at 3pm the majority of children left already; just a few of them stayed until 4pm, when the afterschool usually closes (in Hungary the afterschools close around 6pm)

We played snooker with children and we used our body language to understand each other.
We realised those children who are immigrants could understand English and they already known a couple of words, expressions.
Even pupils have their own lunch boxes, they also eat what they cook/bake.

We also have afterschool in our country, but each classes stays their own rooms, they're not contracted. In Hungary afterschool is about:
  • have a break after 'normal' school, which is about 1,5 hours (pupils most of the time go outside)
  • in rest of the time do the homework, which checked by the teacher
  • there are not too many choices in activities

Even this was only an afterschool, what we visited, the differences between the two educational systems are conspicuous...

(The picture above from Lilla.)

Tuesday 10 February 2009

What we already had known and what we didn’t about Denmark and Danes…

On Tuesday the 3rd of February we had a lesson with Jette; it called Cultural dimension, where we discussed the aspects of Danish culture.
First everybody had to give a statement what we had already known about Denmark. It was a sort of brainstorming.
The statements were:

  • Demark has a Queen: Margaret II.
  • Danes said "no" to the Euro
  • Secure and safe society
  • Danes live in monarchy
  • Danes' ansestors are the vikings
  • H. C. Andersen, the world-famous fairy tales writer, was born in Denmark, in Odense
  • Denmark consists of more than 300 islands
  • The change of the Guard takes place in Copenhagen
  • Christiania - part of Copenhagen, used to be a military area - owned by an independent community
  • The happiest nation in Europe
  • Danes are always precise


After this
task we were diveded to three groups and we had to prepare posters of Denmark and the Danes. We could use coloured papers, scissors, glue, crayons, pencils…etc. All of the groups expressed their feelings and knowledge about Denmark.
I worked with Anja and Zep and we tried to put everything what we had already known or experienced: smiling faces, the cosy and old houses, the Little Mermaid, one of H.C. Andersen book, a can of Carlsberg, a scarf and a pair of gloves, LEGO, a windmill, vikings, a ferry (ensure the connection between the islands), a clock, the Danish flag,…etc.




Finally all of the groups had to explain what they put to their posters and why.







On Monday the 9th – in the same class – we discussed the results of the
„Questionnaire about Denmark”. We learnt some new things about Denmark and the Danes, such as:
  • Danes favourite meal is "frikadeller" (fried meat balls).
  • It cause a suprise, if a man opens the door for a woman, entering a restaurant
  • Danes dance around the Christmas tree on Christmas Eve
  • The national animal of Denmark is the swan
  • There is an "unwritten law" - it called Jante law - about people's success and wealth, which says people should not bother about them
  • If Danes put the Danish flag on the dining table, it means somebody's birthday
  • If you talking to your teacher, you should be prepared for irony
  • You should address your teachers by their first name
  • A typical Danish conversation opener is speaking about the weather
  • Danes like hyggeling. Hygge is a sort of "cosiness", but it means little bit more. It's about being with the family or friends, have fun together and creating intimacy, a special atmosphere by candles, lightings
  • Danes like to make joke out of misunderstoods
  • Danes queue by a number system in bakery, pharmacy, post office, ...etc.
  • Denmark is famous for its own dairy products
  • The Tivoli is one of the most famous and traditional amusement park all over the world in Copenhagen



Monday 9 February 2009

The place where we live...


We - Anja, Canan, Carlos, Gosia, Lilla, Marysia, Marlene and me - live outside of the town in the first floor of a dormitory. There aren't too many things around except some schools, a factory and besides of the building there is a dog-training place. It could be really noisy,when dogs are there but fortunately it happens only in Thursday evening and in Saturday afternoon.
It takes about 30 minutes to get to the College on foot, but only if you know the shortcut. The shortcut is: first you need ot turn left and go along the street, then cross the footbridge and leave the 'social buildings'. Then you have to cross the field and small passageways - up and down between houses - and you will arrive to the Waterhouse. Then you need to go down from the hill, turn left, then cross the ground. Then you will find a shortcut - an institute parking place - , which lead you a crosswalk. You have to cross the road, and go straight. At the second junction turn left. And finally you get to the College. It's easy, isn't it? :)
Everybody has his/her own room - hall, bathroom, bedroom - , which is commodious and comfortable.
We have a big kitchen as well, which is not only for cooking, but parties, meetings, watching movies, paintings, making jigsaw puzzles, karaoke...etc.
We also have a place, where we can wash and dry our clothes. At the beginning we can't wash, because all of the writings on the washing-machine and dryer-machine are Danish. Finally we - Lilla and me - were brave enough to try it and luckily we didn't ruin our clothes. Then I asked my buddy - Christen - for help, so she translated the writings. It was settled...

Sunday 8 February 2009

A really HAPPY BIRTHDAY...


Yesterday evening Lilla forced me to go to the kitchen. I thought she prepared something for me (we wanted to prepare pencakes before, so I thought she just did that for me). It was a very big suprise for me, because all of my Erasmus mates were the kitchen. It wasn't only my birthday, Gosia's as well, but she already had known about what the others planned. They were just standing around, singing the "happy birthday" song, holding the birthday cakes in the decorated kitchen, little tealights everywhere. It was very touching, and I felt myself ashamed, because I hadn't prepared with anything. And I still don't know, how could they organise it such a good way! My wish - almost - came true, because a I got a handmade birthday card with the Danish flag on it also with all of my flatmates wishes and signitures and an other one - an "artificial" one - , all of my Erasmus mates wishes and signitures. Top of this I got a bottle of red wine.
I could say we had a good time together. We were chating each other, dancing, eating and had karaoke as well. We were just hyggeling together. :)
Every birthday is special, because you have it once in your life. But my 27 th birthday was really special because all of you.
Thank you for everybody!

Saturday 7 February 2009

Something smells in Denmark - but it is not rotten...

Ok. I have to make a retrospection, because a haven't done anything on my blog since Monday...Somebody knocked on my door...It was Lilla. She just warned me, it is not allowed to me to go to the kitchen now...Maybe they organise something....I don't know. Today is my birthday, and I wanted to cook or bake something, but I had a long sleep instead. I went to bed around 5 in the morning, because I was chating with my boyfriend on skype. So this is the reason of my laziness. Hmmm...I'm just hearing funny noise from the kitchen and my mates running up and down of the corridor...Something smells as well. But it is very nice, and I became hungry. A hungry Hungarian...
And what is my birthday wish? I wish I got a handmade birthday card the Hungarian flag on it. I was really impressed, when I saw during my practise that one of the pedagogs made a birthday card for her mum and she did the envelope as well. She told me Danish people usually made their own cards with the Danish flag on it. And they also put the Danish flag to the table if somebody has birthday...I like this tradition...
Somebody knocked my door again...I need to go...The retrocpection can wait.

Tuesday 3 February 2009

The first days in Haderslev

It was't too easy to find out where is the bedding. First I just looked for it underneath of the bed and after that I found it in the back of the sofa. It was very strange for me, because I hadn't seen this kind of "system" before. So you had to learn how you can make the bed. The steps are the following:


1. You need to lift up the back of the sofa. Undeneath of it you find the bedding.
2. Then you need to roll it down.
3. Afterwards you need to put everything to the right place.
4. Finally you can lie down.
5. And the whole starts again...
6. You need to roll the bedding up.
7. Then you need to squeeze the bedding into the back of the sofa.
8. Finally you need to give a good push to the back.

If you made it in right way you can make yourself very comfortable on the sofa. But it just never happens with me... :)





Our sleep wasn`t so long, because our buddy - Christen - came to take us to the centre of the town. The first shopping was quite funny - I supose is still the same - because we don`t know the Danish coins, and we don`t understand the Danish language (labels on goods) either.
On Saturday - that day when we arrived - we met first wiht Anja - from Belgium - and in the evening Carlos arrived as well from Spain. On Sunday evening we were nearly all together, because Gosia, Mariska and Marlene arrived from Poland. Finally - the following week - Canan - from Turkey - moved our dormitory.




Arriving to Haderslev...

A must say it was quite difficult to get here from Hungary, but finally we managed it with Lilla. She is also an Erasmus student from the same college I study. We had not known each other before, but the long journey gave the opportunity - I could say - to become friends (neverending chatings each other, playing "Who wants to be a millionere?"on her laptop, help out each other carrying luggages...etc.).
We came to Haderslev by three buses, a ferry and a train...:) or the other way: we stopped in Bratislava, Prague, Copenhagen, Kolding + other unknown petrol stations and finally Haderslev. So when we arrived to our accommodation, we just couldn`t wait to find the way to our beds.

Monday 2 February 2009

Motto

"The one thousand miles journey also starts with the first step."

(Chinese phrase)

I've taken the first step starting this blog, to share my experiences,impressions,memories...